Author Archives: Yuna Tiya

Don’t argue–Discuss

Discussions can be healthy, since they have the potential to build relationships and result in a “win” for everyone. On the other hand, arguments are rarely good. Why? They are forceful attempts to change another person’s point of view, and thus result in a “winner” and a”loser.”Arguments always cause some damage, even if you “win.” […]

The difference between Managers and Leaders

The manager administers;the leader innovates. The manager is a copy;the leader is an original. The manager maintains;the leader develops. The manager focuses on systems and structure;the leader focuses on people. The manager relies on control;the leader inspires trust. The manager has a short-range view;the leader has a long-range perspective. The manager asks how and when;the […]

Constructive Thinking: Your Elevator to Success

Constructive Thinking: Your Elevator to Success—Dr. Seymour Epstein of the University of Massachusetts researched the thinking styles of highly successful people.…The most interesting survey result was the fact that superachievers think differently than average achievers. Dr. Epstein found nine key differences: Superachievers think in ways that make them less sensitive to disapproval and rejection. They […]